BYE 2020, HELLO 2021

--- 2021: Things we are leaving in 2020 ---

 

Having experienced a 2 week 'trial' of 2021 I AM READYYY *claps whilst saying 'ready'* to see what this year brings. 

2020 bought a lot of sadness and joy but GIRL/ BOY, let me tell you, 
LET ME TELL YOU, last year was an experience and an eye-opener. 

2021 doesn't have room for last year's behaviour 😅.  I guess 2021 is about personal growth (like any other year, I always say it's time to GROW AND GLOW 💫. On Instagram, I saw a post of a word search whereby the first 4 words you spot will be your 'Mantra's' for the year. 

^The words I found above illustrate Belief, Happiness, and Going along the right path.

Let me know in the comments which were yours!

RIGHT, getting into the post

1) HATERSSSS. We need to leave all the jealousy in 2020, if something or someone is bothering you, either communicate or ignore it. Do not bottle how you feel. ALTHOUGH, when you have UNSUPPORTIVE FRIENDS and lowkey some FAMILY, where they don't listen even though you tried speaking to them... I meeaannn, BYEEEE. 
Also not to mention, SELF-CENTERED PEOPLE that think everything is about them and they try to victimise themselves 👀 *GOSHHH*

There are only so many 'second chances' you can give someone. 

I was once told, that 'when people are jealous it is because they are envious of how far you've gotten without them even though somewhere along the line they may have started at the same line as you, in fact, you outshined and left them behind.' People need to learn to appreciate others and encourage happiness, if we were taught anything from 2020, it is that life is too short as anything can happen within a blink of an eye. Learn to compromise and come to a middle ground when there are arguments. 


2) We be leaving that NEGATIVE ENERGY. It is 100% okay to put yourself first in situations you feel 'manipulated' or 'unsure' in.

Did you know, there are 86,400 seconds in a day!

Do not let a few seconds of bad vibes and negative energy ruin your day because you still have all those seconds to make up for it. You make your day. My mum always tells us that 'we are responsible for the way we react to situations.' For example, if someone is annoying you, the way you react determines your attitude to that particular situation eg. going upstairs to your room and being blunt/ moody. You are responsible for your actions, make your actions count, and don't put pressure or let that negative energy get to you. CHANGE your MINDSET and maybe your attitude/ reaction will change too. 


3) FEAR OF NOT BEING GOOD ENOUGH. Life is about moving forward and not being stuck in the same place. Take those risks, the answer is always no until you try. *Storytime* When I was younger ngl I used to be a 'Belieber' (Justin Bieber fangirl) and you don't realise this at the time but believing in someone and their goals helps them and yourself. Justin Bieber is a worldwide artist. We little kids, we did that, we helped him and believed in him which got him to where he is. I guess what I am trying to say is that we need to BELIEVE IN OURSELVES. Self-belief and CONFIDENCE are the biggest accelerators in life because you as an individual will find that SECURITY from within.

Put your mind to it and don't be afraid of the unknown!

Think of it like this: Fears are scared of confidence! (once again it is your mindset that changes the way we react to situations). 

Source: Vex-Kings Instagram, reposted on my Instagram story.

2021 will be the year of Purpose, Alignment, Power, and good Health.
Focus on yourself, do what you feel is best for you, learn to be a little selfish in order to achieve your goals. 

--- It is not about what we leave behind, it is about what we bring with us --- 


Disclaimer: These are my opinions, you live your own life :)