Los Sentimentos
.FEELINGS.
Here are a few thoughts/ realisations from Heenaverse. This is the type of post that will constantly change because ---> nothing is permanent.
ONE
There comes a time where your tears have dried and you have no more tears to shed because you’re so used to being let down and your so used to people walking over you.. broken becomes an understatement, all those memories become questionable.
Many times, a small mistake, a wrong decision, or misunderstanding can break the strongest bond, no matter how long it was. We shouldn't break what is made, in fact, should give a chance for it to blossom and become fruitful.
TWO
You get more out of people if you feed their ego rather than fighting against it!Life is a roller coaster and we never know what is to come our way next but, what we do know is karma will hit hard because you played with their feelings over and over again.
Every conversation you gave them hope and then dropped them, rendering it false.
I can assure you that one day, one will realise that it’s all a game and that they deserve better. All those times you thought it was okay to upset them and let them cry themselves to sleep, they will walk away because your love to them was never there, it’s just because you were scared to be lonely so you kept hold of them and whenever you were bored you’d leave.
We all know... the one day they play your game on you you’ll break and not a sign will be received from them of care!
THREE
Attachment is a trigger, giving people a benefit of the doubt is a trigger.
'Once upon a time she saw something in him but he messed up, she tried to get him to fix up and the same mistakes were made. Eventually, she distanced herself but he stayed true to her, she overthought more and more every day, keeping her guard up against him. That didn’t stop him he still continued to prove he wanted her, but as time went by she remained confused and pushed him away - now they are people that “used to” know each other!💭'
- Quote from an Instagram post.
Trust issues are real and arise from experiences.
FOUR
Do you ever feel useless and helpless?
It is the worst feeling ever, not knowing what to do and when to do it? Feeling insecure about the way you look, trying your best to loose/ gain weight, and then messing up every time because you have a sweet tooth or just always hungry.
Do you ever feel like you aren't good enough?
...feeling bad about ourselves isn’t right and we shouldn’t do it.
We should love the way we are and if not, then we should try better ourselves, we should accept challenges and obstacles thrown at us.
Even the deepest secrets have their perks!
Surround yourself with people who will make you feel good and do it for yourself.
Be selfish!
You don't need people who are going to give you a hard time because to be fair, they probably are having a miserable time themselves... thank you, next.🙏🏼
FIVE
No regrets because everything happens for a reason. - D
SIX
Find happiness from within, one thing I always go by is how can we expect to be 'loved' by someone if we are not happy with ourselves (the way we are).
THREE
Attachment is a trigger, giving people a benefit of the doubt is a trigger.
'Once upon a time she saw something in him but he messed up, she tried to get him to fix up and the same mistakes were made. Eventually, she distanced herself but he stayed true to her, she overthought more and more every day, keeping her guard up against him. That didn’t stop him he still continued to prove he wanted her, but as time went by she remained confused and pushed him away - now they are people that “used to” know each other!💭'
- Quote from an Instagram post.
Trust issues are real and arise from experiences.
FOUR
Do you ever feel useless and helpless?
It is the worst feeling ever, not knowing what to do and when to do it? Feeling insecure about the way you look, trying your best to loose/ gain weight, and then messing up every time because you have a sweet tooth or just always hungry.
Do you ever feel like you aren't good enough?
...feeling bad about ourselves isn’t right and we shouldn’t do it.
We should love the way we are and if not, then we should try better ourselves, we should accept challenges and obstacles thrown at us.
Even the deepest secrets have their perks!
Surround yourself with people who will make you feel good and do it for yourself.
Be selfish!
You don't need people who are going to give you a hard time because to be fair, they probably are having a miserable time themselves... thank you, next.🙏🏼
FIVE
No regrets because everything happens for a reason. - D
SIX
Find happiness from within, one thing I always go by is how can we expect to be 'loved' by someone if we are not happy with ourselves (the way we are).
SELF DEVELOPMENT BOOKS/ PODCASTS.
The magic of not giving a F*uck - Sarah Knight
Rich dad poor dad
Good vibes good life - Vex king
Podcasts by Jay Shetty.
REMINDER: Always remember that nothing is permanent, just breath.
SIX is LIFE & you defo live by this ❤️ You cutie!
ReplyDeleteAlso I read this book called “the magic of thinking big” I’m not a big reader as you know but this book is something👌🏽 I’ll share you the notes I made on it 😘😘
For sureee I do, it took a while to realise it but i'm getting there, I guess life is about learning ALL THE TIMEEEE haha xx
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